Humanist Minister's Eulogy from Tim's funeral - 28th May 2004

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Tim very understandably chose to return to the family home at Cusworth for many reasons - lock, stock and Tinklybell. He wanted people around him whom he loved for when things might get really worse. His parents Anne and Michael ensured that Tim did indeed find the love and devoted care that he needed within his own family...a place unpressured and comfortable after the difficult times.

Even as late as November, around Christmas, Tim picked up quite a bit following an operation on his liver, always with the positive hope that that is the one organ in the human body able to regenerate itself cleanly. He certainly picked up, because he managed to get to see the Rovers again, and get out and about with his mates...have a few lagers. He was quite determined to be able to stand, as a supporting adult and Godparent and be Godfather to Jessica and Nathan...that was another achievement for Tim.

Tim's early death is indeed a tragedy - not only because he has died so young, but because of the very many positive aspects of his character that perhaps only those closest to him knew about. Now I can only give you a snapshot of Tim Jacobs, the man you knew and loved so well...and I'm sure that you will all have your own memories of Tim that you will cherish and continue to share with each other. Be assured though that these memories will live on in the hearts and minds of his family and friends for much, much longer than the grief and bewilderment you may be feeling here this afternoon.

Remember Tim with joy, not in sorrow! Remember Tim with happiness - for I am sure he would prefer it that way...

Carl Robinson and Mark Jacobs then give their speeches (read speeches)

What I recommend now is can we observe just a brief period of silence - during which each of you can remember Tim Jacobs as you knew him best in your own personal relationship with him. And anyone here present - you who have a religious faith - you might like to use the moments for your own private and personal prayers. So I will ask you all to bow your heads while we observe the customary minutes' silence...thank you.